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Book of the Month February 2018 - Parenting Strategies to Help Adopted and Fostered Children with Their Behaviour

1/3/2018

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Parenting Strategies to Help Adopted and Fostered Children with Their Behaviour by Christine Gordon

​The wonderful wisdom in this book is a most welcome addition for any parent, professional or educator supporting children with difficult to understand behaviour. Although the focus of the book is on children affected by early trauma, (especially children who are fostered or adopted) the strategies and
underpinning knowledge is universally valuable. I found the book to be full of insights which have deepened my understanding of parenting and working with children who have had a difficult start in life.

The book offers a unique contribution to the literature on parenting children with early life trauma due to the inclusion of the invaluable behaviour charts which make up the second half of the book. The charts explain the underlying causes of many common behaviours children affected by trauma display, with useful insights and strategies for interpreting and supporting behaviour when it arises.

It is very understanding of the struggles many adults have in caring for traumatised children and helps you feel understood and validated.
It is not easy caring for children with trauma histories and when a book like this come along it provides light at the end of an often very long tunnel. 

This book helps carers make the shift from seeing behaviour as:
Challenging to distressed
What is wrong with you? to What has happened to you?
What are you doing? to What is your behaviour trying to tell me?
and from focusing only on behaviour to wondering about the meaning and the deeper communication.

The uniqueness and value in this book lies not only in the author's obvious knowledge and expertise, but the clear and applicable charts which really do help decipher and translate behaviour into communication. I have my copy beside my bed and refer to it often. This not only helps me, but ensures my adopted children get a more understanding and supportive parent.

 Kevin Denvir
​(Adoptive parent, foster carer and ASN teacher)

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Book of the Month - April 2017 Adapting Approaches 

1/4/2017

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​​** OUT OF PRINT **

THIS BOOK HAS BEEN REVISED AND REPUBLISHED AS "Parenting Strategies to Help Adopted and Fostered Children with Their Behaviour"

ADAPTING APPROACHES - Understanding Behaviour in Traumatised Children

By Christine Gordon, co-author of ‘“Reparenting the Child Who Hurts: A Guide to Healing Developmental Trauma and Attachments’’”.[2012] and “New Families, Old Scripts: A Guide to the Language of Trauma and Attachment in Adoptive Families”. [2006]
 
A new, practical A4 sized workbook with thirty five charts identifying behaviours  possible attachment/ developmental trauma issues, triggers and most importantly ‘’what can I do?’’’’

‘What a fantastic resource for all who are concerned with parenting, teaching and supporting children who have experienced developmental trauma.
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As the title suggests, Christine Gordon explains so articulately and thoroughly why children who have been harmed in their early years can be very challenging to parent, how the children feel about themselves, how they experience relationships and the world about them, how to support their ‘healing’ through Developmental Reparenting. The uniqueness and innovation in this resource is in the practical nature of connecting executive functioning difficulties – the  ‘why does my child do this?’  - to the ‘what can I do?’ and ‘what can I to say?’. 

Packed full of ideas, suggestions and resources for strategies and interventions, all so clearly written by Christine, and wonderfully illustrated by Corinne Watt, ‘Adapting Approaches – Understanding Behaviour in Traumatised Children’ is not to be missed – highly recommended.’ 

Edwina Grant
Chair of Scottish Attachment In Action

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